A New Perspective on Stagnant Grief
So true. I guess this is "acceptance" in the grief paradigm, but your illustration says it better. We aren't dutifully accepting a cold new reality, but adjusting to new seasons after (or during) loss and finding the Lord's mercy as he sustains us to keep walking in the valley. Thanks for this, brother!
I held grudges to friends who I felt weren't there for me, but as time went I let go because I realised grief is one of those things probably unless you've gone through it that you wont be able to understand.... This is a change that has come with my grief, perspectives have changed on alot of things... Also I can talk about my loved one without feeling choked or super sad and teary all the time